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This is your second child? Dabao backward was relevant and two treasure! – the new term of the mother and child in the past half a month, the students are slowly entering the state, learning new textbooks, new knowledge. But there are exceptions to the two child family, beware of children’s academic achievements! There are two children in the family, if the gap between the larger gap between the two children, will lead to a significant decline in children’s behavior and academic performance! The reason for this phenomenon is actually very simple: many parents feel limited energy, take care of the small, the attention of the child will be reduced. Five or six grades of children are in adolescence, the attention of parents is more sensitive to the shift, resulting in a relatively large fluctuations in mood, affect their behavior and academic performance. Pay attention to this phenomenon is the Hangzhou elementary school teacher. In the past summer vacation, school teachers home more than 1 thousand children, want to learn more about some of the student’s family life, to promote home school communication. As a result, many middle and high school teachers have discovered the phenomenon that was not noticed. Mao Changyun is Hangzhou the fifth grade elementary school teacher, this summer she visits the 34 families, including two families and 20. "There are a lot of child family of two children, this is the two or three year of birth, and the child’s age gap is big." Mr. Mao said, in a family visit, she gradually discovered a phenomenon: "some children learning achievement significantly behind, reason may be that the family has a much smaller than his brother or sister." For example, there is a boy in her class, the original performance can also be, people are docile, usually with the classmates and laughing and talking. But from the beginning of last semester, the little boy seems to have changed a person like, not only academic performance is obvious, but also from time to time with the conflict. There are times in the classroom, at the same table reminded the boy, he actually shouted, "what do you charge me," the desks are overturned. There is an English exam, the teacher checked the papers hair down, he did not test well, even the original answer to obliterate, correct, and then took the papers to find teachers again. After being found by the teacher, he was in a state of collapse, crying and refusing to go home. The home visits, Mr. Mao finally found out the reason, the boy’s mother gave birth to a girl who is 1 years old. The mother admitted that since the two child, she put more time and energy on the two children who, on children’s attention fell, "a person with two children Gubuguolai, originally a pipe will now focus on his work, not so much." Hangzhou elementary school visits showed that now the proportion of households accounted for the second class, the number of 20%~30%, or even higher. Mao Changyun said that the family has two children led to the results of a large child setback, usually the family was originally staring at a more secure students. Before the home of all the attention is focused on the big child, with two children, all of these concerns shifted, the child’s self perception will feel ‘parents do not love me’." The impact of the age gap between the two children on the older child is objective, but not!相关的主题文章:

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